Child Custody Arrangements - Making Every Minute Count
In your child custody arrangement, every minute counts. You want to maximize the time you spend with your child and you also want to keep track of the correct time-share percentage so that you're paying or receiving fair child support. If you're not already doing so, it's time to start micro-managing your child custody time. Let's begin with a question no one seems to ask--but that you probably should. Why do all child exchange times seem to be on the hour? 5 pm to 8 pm on a Wednesday night. Friday afternoon at 3 to Monday morning at 8.
Divorce - Is the Move On Advice Being Given Out Way Too Freely?
When it comes to divorce, the "move on" advice IS being given out way too freely. I am separated right now and have been for quite a long time. It has been quite a journey. "Move on" is really the only advice I get. If that is the only advice I'm getting, I'm pretty certain that's the only advice my husband is getting. And, our problems are really minimal compared to many. It's not my choice. It is his choice to divorce me. However, I do know that I was part of the problem in our relationship.
Dating and Love After Divorce
Your marriage is over... now what? After allowing a sufficient amount of time to deal with the emotional fallout after divorce, it is time to move forward and begin a new journey into the land of dating and relationships once again. But, what is a sufficient amount of time? How do you find the strength to let someone into your life when you've shared so much for so many years then lost it? No two people are ever the same, no two situations are ever the same and the same rule applies to divorce.
Life After Divorce - 3 Steps to Greater Happiness
Divorce can feel like a death in terms of the level of loss it entails. Not only are you facing the loss of an intimate relationship, you are also letting go of an ideal of family life, changing living arrangements, facing changes to finances and lifestyle, experiencing changes to your social networks of mutual family and friends, and dealing with changes to time spent with your children. It is no wonder that this is an extremely challenging and trying time. Fortunately, there are positives as well.
Getting Over it - 3 Tips For Moving on Post Divorce
Divorce is a very challenging life transition for most people to go through. There is a great deal of loss and change involved - in ideals for a family unit, living arrangements, mutual friends and family members, finances, intimacy, and access to children. While divorce may be a dark season, there is light on the other side. Here are 3 tips to help you move on after the challenging process of divorce: 1. Honor your feelings. Your emotions are all acceptable! You may go through various stages of grieving, including denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
Technology Use by Divorced Families is Virtually Inevitable
Increased availability of computers, cell phones, and other multi-media devices has created an environment where technology can be a catalyst for maintaining closer family relationships. In today's world, the use of technology can assist families to stay connected with one another and feel informed about day-to-day activities. A recent report from the PEW Internet and American Life Project indicated married couples with children used cell phones and the Internet to say hello, chat, "check-in" with family members, coordinate schedules, and stay connected on a day-to-day basis.
How Would I Know If My Ex Wants to Get Back With Me?
Do you know that there are common tell-tale signs that your ex is interested in getting back with you? If you can feel that your ex is showing some interest in you, or seems more interested while going out and spending time with you like before, it may be a hopeful sign. However, try not to jump into conclusion as you need to slowly work things out in order to get back together happily. Try to control your emotions and work things out one at a time before going full force as it may cause your ex to push you back again.
Getting Ready to Date Again - 3 Tips For Entering the Dating Pool After Divorce
Dating can be a daunting prospect post divorce. You may have been out of the dating pool for some time, and/or sustained damage emotionally from your divorce experience. How much should you share about your past and when? What kind of potential partner is right for you? Are you ready to start dating at all? The answers to these questions are best found in a healthy, thoughtful you. Here are 3 tips for re-entering the dating pool post divorce: 1. Take your time. There is no rush at all in getting back into dating.
Kids and Your Ex - 3 Reasons Why Being Respectful Benefits You and Your Children
It is very difficult to split with your partner when children are involved. The truth is, you will always have some kind of relationship with this person. Though you may no longer live together and be intimate partners, this person will be at significant events, and you will have to communicate on at least a minimal level about issues that involve the children. When you hold bitterness or hurt toward your ex, these interactions can be unpleasant, frustrating, and upsetting. However, for the sake of the children, it is very important to maintain civility and respect, even if you don't believe your ex deserves it.
Letting Go of a Narcissistic Ex Spouse - 3 Steps For Moving On
Divorce is usually a difficult process and there are often mixed feelings involved in suddenly "deinvesting" in all the hopes, dreams, and plans you had about your life and future with your partner. Unfortunately, if you have been through a divorce with a narcissist, you may have been through quite a wringer emotionally. As hard as your spouse might have been to deal with in the marriage, going through a divorce often brings out the worst in people and this certainly applies to most narcissists.
